Play It Again, Mom/Dad! Or, Why Do They Always Ask for the Same Song?

Have you ever found yourself in the situation where your little one asks you to play the same song over and over again? The same melody, the same lyrics, no variations… And while it may seem repetitive to you, that insistence has a much deeper reason than we might think.

Every time your child listens to that song repeatedly, their brain is working in an incredible way. On a neurological level, hearing the same melody helps create and strengthen neural connections. Dendrites, which are like the arms of neurons, extend and connect with others, forming stronger and more efficient networks. This is part of a process known as neuroplasticity, where the brain continues learning and adapting.

What’s fascinating is that this process doesn’t happen instantly. It can take between 4 to 6 weeks to fully consolidate. So, when your child asks for their favorite song for the hundredth time, they’re not just enjoying the melody—they’re reinforcing key skills for their cognitive and emotional development. It’s a full-on brain workout!

Besides helping them solidify learning and improve memory, repeating a favorite song provides them with a sense of security. It allows them to understand the world around them more clearly, which, as parents, helps us see them feeling calmer and more focused.

So, the next time they ask you to play that same song again, don’t get frustrated. It’s much more than just a preference—it’s an essential brain exercise that supports their development in a healthy and fun way. 🎶✨

Looking for some great songs to put on repeat? Click this link to find a playlist with all the songs included in our Petit Folks boxes.