I don’t like playing

I don’t like playing

Have you ever felt guilty for not enjoying playtime with your little one? You're not alone. Sometimes it feels like, to be a good mom or dad, we need to absolutely love playing. But the truth is, that’s not always the case—and that’s perfectly okay.

Play is our children's "work"—it's how they learn, explore, and develop. But is it really our job to share every single play moment with them? Not necessarily. Some parents genuinely love spending hours playing, while others, honestly, don’t enjoy it as much. And both are completely valid. There’s no rule that says we have to be experts in everything our kids love to do.

What truly matters is that, even if we don’t play with them all the time, there are countless other ways to show love and support. As parents, we are their reference for so many things: values, how we handle our emotions, how we organize our routines, how we make decisions. And those are just as important as any game.

Sometimes, the reason we don’t play with them is simply that we don’t enjoy it, and that’s okay. Other times, it’s because we don’t know where to start or what to do, and that’s okay too. If that’s your case, I can help! Our Petit Folks song boxes can be a great ally for those moments. With them, you can enjoy music, movement, and fun with your child—without feeling like you have to improvise or force yourself to be someone you’re not. And the app will give you plenty of ideas on how to play.

So, take a deep breath. You don’t have to be the most playful parent in the world. What matters most is that your child feels loved, supported, and understood—always. And, as always, remember: you’re not alone in this.

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